Contributed by Darren Lim • Jun 25, 2024
There have been many missed opportunities for reaching out to care and support others even in the past few weeks. I had arranged this week for a couple of Christian colleagues to have a farewell lunch with a brother. I knew about this 2 weeks ago from a sister who bumped into him and only got round to calling him last week. His response (though I know it was unintentional.., you see this brother really has a heart of gold) weighed heavily upon my heart as we ended the call. He said he was glad I called as he was hoping word got to me. He said he was looking forward to sharing the reason why he was leaving over lunch. The fact that I had been too busy to check in with this dear brother and neglected him struck my conscience.
Oftentimes, I have been overwhelmed by the hustle and bustle of both family and work life that I “count the cost” of supporting someone and decided against it. Oftentimes I tell myself that I need to find some time to check in with someone but never find the “right time” to make it happen.
What I have come to realise is that I have been operating from a position of self-sufficiency. This means it is always looking at what is convenient. I would focus first and foremost on my family and my priorities and then only extend to others what is left of my time. Instead, this week’s sermon has challenged me to operate from a position of total dependence on Jesus and what He has done for me at the Cross. This means I am sensitive to the real needs of others. I am not over engineering clever ways to help equip others. Rather as the Spirit leads, to meet someone’s need with a gracious and joyful heart. Sometimes it is as simple as taking time out to connect with a colleague to ask “How are you?” and genuinely meaning to know. Sometimes all someone needs is an attentive ear, a brother or sister to affirm, encourage and pray for. Someone to tell them that they heard, they care and that they support them.
Lord Jesus, You taught us that we have to give up everything if we want to be Your disciple. With a contrite heart I come in repentance… mould me and teach me to be gracious with my time and energy, that through my words and deeds, others will come to know how much you love them. Amen.